July 23, 2008 How do you know you still love her?
I’ve seen so many people asking about how to know if the person don’t love us, or whatever about don’t love. I don’t know why people should ask question like this except if they are really in trouble maintaining a relationship with someone. I’ve decided to write about something, I don’t know if it is related is any way to anything but I wanted to write about proof (or as some people like to call it, symptoms) for you to know you love or still loves someone.
- You are afraid of losing the person (she might die or less important, she might go away)
- You always try to please the persons (and someone not please yourself)
- You want to be with her at every moment (even though you know it might be impossible)
- Waiting for her to come is unbearable and moments with her are too short
- You are always anticipating her wants
- You are never tired to satisfy her wants
- You like to listen to her
- You like to look at her
- She might not be the most beautiful but even though you prefer her to other models
- You walk near to her on the road to be the nearest possible to her (you might also take hands for the same reason)
- You cannot bear people talking bad of her
- You never see (or make as if) her flaws
- You prefer to see her qualities
- You listen to her, to her problems (and never never never make fool of her problems)
- You never say to yourself you love her (because you know you love her)
It is not the exact list I wanted to make, I was looking for tangible (material) symptoms for how to know you love her but I think I’ve made it a little personal. We’ve got our personal reason that tells us that we love this person or not, we should listen to these reasons instead of trying to get these reasons on a website, blog or internet. It is inner and only you can reach these reasons…
Go on guy and girls, read your inner you and Cheerio…
Tags: inner, leave, listen, Love, proof, symptoms, tangible, trouble
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Brian Light | Talking about love 
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Hrest Weblog
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We’ve got our personal reason that tells us that we love this person or not, we should listen to these reasons instead of trying to get these reasons on a website, blog or internet. It is inner and only you can reach these reasons…
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Pueng
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This is a difficult question cuz there is no real answer to it…as how “Hrest Weblog” commented on!! It varies with everyone…depending on how you feel more and etc!!
However, in my opinion, to find out if you still love her is simply by asking yourself basic questions such as;
1.) Is my life better with her or without her?…Does she make me a better man?
2.) Am I happy to see her living a better life with her new bf? (Even though your heart breaks, but seeing her happy and successful is all you’ve ever wanted.)
3.) Do I enjoy spending time with her more, but not doing anything at all just sit down and talk about nonsense things better than going out with your friends? Do I really think it is better?
Things like that is what I would call, “LOVE”!! If the answers to the above questions are YES then you still LOVE her and want her back!! If that is the case, then go for it!! Get her back!! However, don’t forget that loving does not mean having that person be yours, because you can still love someone without having them be your gf or bf.
Some people mix up love and affection. Sometimes, you just feel that your heart breaks and that you don’t want to live without her by your side and etc. That is so wrong cuz that is selfish and not love!! If you get her back then you will be unhappy one day!! Sometimes it’s just the matter of being used to doing something or having something. You might just feel that you can’t live without her, when actually you’re just getting used to the habbit of having her around and not seeing her makes you upset and down. You might just feel like you’re not good enough to find someone new and that she is the only one who loves you and wants you. Many more….so just THINK and follow your heart!! Remember, love is not a game and it’s not about winning or losing.
Good luck everyone!!
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Tom
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This sounds obsessive and dependent on the other. At least that’s how I feel when I have those feelings.
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anon
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I love my gf but ever since i told her i’ve felt a pressure to maintain my love for her and i have to keep telling myself i’m so confused i don’t know what to do i couldn’t bear to lose her i just want to stop worrying because i love her so much
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Brian
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I watch a film yesterday, Fireproof, where the father of the actor said that loving something means loving without waiting for the other to love you back. It is loving without condition, simply because we want to love the person. I think you are loving your girlfriend in this way and I see no other true way of demonstrating love. Believe me, she knows that, she feels that and she loves you for that.
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Gabe
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I have All these feelings About my girlfriend but i always worry that I don’t love her
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Tyler
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same here… 😦 its eating me up, i don’t want a simple solution i want help i know i should probley be the one to figure it out for myself.. but i dont want to break up with her ..i love her i just don’t know how much. i dont know if i would feel a more intence love if i learned to love someone else. any ideas..?
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shane
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love is unconditional. So if you do not how much you love her then when situations come and the two of you seem to get through it and you still can be forgiving and normal after your trials then thats a good sign that your love for her is doing well.. usually you know your not really in love if the trials you go through are handled badly meaning you dont care if she is hurt by what you say from anger or when she tells something she dislikes about the relaionship you listen but you still do what you want to anyway… Usually thats a sign you dont care enough about her to stop the things she dislikes so therefore your not in love with her enough to last forever…
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Jabu
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After reading everything above, all i can say is that love is Complicated.
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Aejo
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I love a girl she love’s me back but some time she is mean to me and that doesnt bothers me much .what bothers me is , she told me she will marry me only if her parents let her , what shall i do ? I will do anything for her , can anyone reply
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